As time progresses, technology makes us all happy. The possibility of accessing everything at any time, the fact that everything is inside our tiny phones, makes life incredibly easy.

However, a feeling of 'nostalgia' prevails in all people who see the times when technology was not that advanced. It seems to us that all emotions used to be better, all food tasted better before. So why are we not satisfied with love as much as we used to?

Making a mix tape.

Don't let this seem like a simple thing to you. Preparing a mixed cassette is not like sending a playlist on spotify or throwing a youtube link. Its taste is different. You choose each song carefully. You listen carefully to his words, add songs that you can send messages to.

That cassette tape is actually not an ordinary playlist, but an indirect expression of his feelings. Filling the cassette is also not easy. You can't reach the song you want in three seconds like now. You'll have to find and record individual tapes of each.

Friend offer-date stages.

One of the biggest problems of our age is "What are we now?" to ask the question, or rather not to ask. Many loves, just because the answer to this question cannot be understood, ends in the cemetery of the loves that do not begin.

Was it like that before? First, a friend request is made. "I like you, just so you know." message was given. When the friendship offer was accepted, it was understood that the feelings were mutual and the next step would be taken by making an offer to go out. I swear we missed this clarity.

Face-to-face communication.

Okay, we're not retarded. Technology has developed a lot, we can reach the person we want whenever we want, this is a great event, but when you think about it, this easy accessibility has also affected our love lives.

You want to call and hear your voice, but then I'll call, you say let's get this thing done first. Is longing a feeling that can be postponed that you are looking for later? What did people endure and how long they waited to hear the voice of their loved ones for ten seconds.

Precious photos.

This situation does not mean much for those under the age of thirty, but those who know know well. There are not many photos from his childhood. Cameras are made of film, and getting them washed isn't cheap either.

Therefore, the camera only appears on crucial days and is put back in place after a few exposures have been taken. As such, photos are like extremely precious little diaries for you. Now it doesn't matter because we can take eight selfies per minute, and we delete the ones we don't like with a bang. If it's easy, yes, it's easy, but the fact that the photos aren't as valuable as they used to be creates a bit of sadness.

Emotions unaffected by time.

It has become fashionable nowadays, for example, that these feelings are getting old and worn out. When the relationship becomes a little serious, after a while, our feelings immediately diminish, our old excitement is gone, we want to sail to new seas. However, there is no logical reason for love to be affected by time.

Yes, our expectations and thoughts may change over the years. But is it because our expectations have changed, or is it our dreadful hunger for novelty, that is why we no longer love the person we once loved so much?

No concern for liking.

In fact, sincere and private feelings between two people do not need anyone's approval or approval. Eight years ago, everyone would have thought so, until Instagram was founded.

All the memories that we used to think so that we could live the moment, be happy and have fun to the fullest are now like magnets for us. We even want to photograph our love, get approval and likes.

Football match tactics are not active in relationships.

How beautiful it is to be loved without tactics. "If I tell him this, if he does that to me, then I convince him of that." "Let me respond a little late to your message so that he doesn't think I'm waiting for him by the phone."

Even the thought is tiring. As long as there are people who love like fighting, I think these winning tactics will always continue. Is a love that does not contain honesty, is progressed with plans, and is based on moves really love?

Respect is not a virtue only taught in books.

Now, respect has become a condition that only needs to be felt for the homeland, the flag, and the elderly. However, the only secret of couples who have been together for decades is respect. We are in a relationship network where the parties do not respect each other. As a matter of fact, the loves we experience, even the feelings resembling love, do not last very long.

Experts who make judgments about everything.

One of the biggest enemies of today's relationships is the knowledgable people who stick around and constantly give you advice about your relationship, tell you what to do, and give you tactics.

They even make suggestions about love and life on TV, on social media. Moreover, they do this without ever knowing you. Not one person comes out and asks them, "If you know everything so well, why is your life like this?"

Knowing how to be satisfied, not wanting more

The dictionary meaning of contentment is "Seeing one thing enough for oneself and not seeing the need for more". Although we generally use this word for material situations, it is clear that it also applies to human relationships.

Nowadays, everyone is chasing a lie called polygamy. Everyone has a desire to get honey from each flower. They can't get enough. Nothing they have, no one in their life is enough for them. Always wanting to seek more, they miss out on everything beautiful.

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