When you look at photos or articles on social media, have you ever asked, "Is it real?"

If you are a critical thinker, I guess you know the answer. Let's give it at least a hefty discount on what you see or read.

Most of the time, the presentation on social media is deceptive. People will showcase their best side — great holidays, happiness at work, good income opportunities, etc.

We may not be real on social media because online platforms often encourage users to present an idealised version of themselves.

My perception of it is as follows:

1. Selective Self-Presentation:

Social media platforms allow users to carefully curate the content they share, emphasizing the positive aspects of their lives and filtering out the negative ones.

People often share their achievements, exciting experiences, or beautiful moments, creating a highlight reel that may not reflect the totality of their lives or their true selves.

2. Fear of Judgment:

The fear of judgment and social comparison plays a significant role in shaping our behaviour on social media. People do not dare to show their authentic selves for fear of judgement. Hence they present themselves in a manner that you and I will only approve of and praise.

3. Online Branding:

Many people create an online persona or personal brand that aligns with specific interests, aspirations, or target audiences. They may want to promote particular schemes or products.

This false identity may not fully reflect their complete personality, values, or experiences. It becomes a performance and lacks an authentic representation of themselves.

What should we do?

It's important to recognise and be mindful of the potential discrepancies between the online and offline selves. While social media platforms can provide opportunities for self-expression and connection, it's essential to understand that the virtual world may not truly express the author's narration of themselves and their achievements.

The non-verbal communication sphere is deceptive, so we must not be motivated by somebody's presentation on social media.

In real life, things may not be as rosy as what you see on social media.

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